Mentoring is a developmental process that enables the mentor to increase his influence beyond his own geographical and generational location. It enables the creation of a lasting legacy. It increases the mentor’s footprint. “Source: Nurturing Champions”
Many leaders resent the time required to mentor people because they feel that mentorship only benefits the protege. This is one sided and erroneous view of mentorship. Mentors increase their influence (- and therefore their leadership reach) by mentoring others. A mentor shapes the value system, thought process and world view of his protege. In this way the mentor is able to influence -(and since leadership can be defined as influence) – people who are beyond his geographical reach. For example I mentored a young man who is now ministering in Australia – since he still cherishes the values that I taught him, I am influencing people in Australia without ever getting there. Therefore mentorship extends my leadership reach and influence past my current location.
One of my mentors has gone on to be with the Lord, but because my decision making process is still shaped by his influence, it follows that his leadership has transcended his generational reach. The people I mentor will be influenced by my mentor though they have never met him. Mentorship helps the mentor pass on his values to the next generation.
Mentorship uses a principle of leverage to increase and multiply a leader’s leadership influence. It helps mentors perpetuate their legacies by touching and influencing the next generation’s influencers. I deliberately and intentionally choose to mentor others in order to increase my influence.
In satellite technology the area covered by a satellite’s reach is called its footprint. In mentorship the extent of your influence — what others may call your circle of influence – is the extent of your leadership footprint. Is your footprint limited to your physical reach? If so you can increase it through mentorship.
One of my mentors is Prof Don Mitchell who supervised my doctoral studies with Rushmore Online University. We have never met but his influence is evident in my life. Prof Mitchell has impacted so many people whom he has never met. His footprint is quite large.
The benefits of mentorship to the protege are well known. They are also detailed in my book Nurturing Champions.
I therefore argue that mentorship benefits both the mentor and protege.
I define mentorship as a dynamic relational experience of trust that enables a mature person to nurture, train and empower another person to grow into his destiny by sharing God-given resources. Source: Nurturing Champions.
The critical aspects are that mentors release their God given resources e.g. their time, occasionally their finances, wisdom and network of relationships to facilitate another person’s dream. In other words mentorship is not cheap labour whereby the mentor uses the protege (or mentee) for the fulfilment of the mentor’s dream. Mentorship is the other-person focused.
Mentorship involves nurturing and empowering the other person. It stands to reason therefore that true mentorship will result in an empowered protege who is not dependent on the mentors but who can think and express his/her own opinion confidently. A well mentored person should be able to move on past the mentoring relationship on his own and tackle life alone. He does not have to be eternally dependent on the mentor. As a matter of fact the relationship can transition from being mentor-protege to being peers and colleagues on an equal status.
Mentorship is a dynamic relationship which does not have set a formula but is dependent on the parties involved, their personalities and time and resource constraints. It follows that a mentor does not relate to all his/her proteges in the same way. Each mentoring relationship is tailored to suit the individuals involved.
The mentoring relationship is an experience for both the mentor and mentee. It is a relational issue with all the underlying dynamics to relationships requiring consideration. It cannot be a transactional experience where the protege seeks to get what he wants with no obligation to a relationship.
It is a relationship based on trust. Trust and confidentiality are critical for a beneficial mentoring relationship. Neither the mentor nor the protege should abuse information shared in confidence. Trust is earned and therefore this takes time.The strength of the relationship enables the training and empowerment of the protege.
Mentorship allows both the mentor and protege to grow as they learn from each other. It is a developmental process. Mentorship in the new economy does not include the “download” syndrome where the mentor is the source of all wisdom who downloads to an empty head of a protege which is ready to be filled. But mentorship is a an interactive learning and growth process for both mentor and protege. The mentor then serves as chief learner in the process.
By the word mature person in our definition we are not referring to age but to experience in the sphere of mentorship. In other words a younger person who is more experienced can mentor an older person. For example my 12year old daughter Faith, introduced me to and mentored me concerning the workings of Facebook as a social networking tool.
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Nurturing Champions Blog is a place where Rapha Trust and its founder Dr T. A. Makoni will seek to hasten champions along the way by nurturing and empowering them. Welcome to the training ground of champions.
A young cub though it has all the potential to become the King of the Jungle is vulnerable when newly born, it therefore needs to be nurtured and protected until it is well groomed and well trained to go tackle the jungles alone.
Nurturing Champion Blog is a place for champions to be recognized, trained and nurtured to fulfill their God given dream and pursue their destiny. Its a place for the release of potential. Its the place to learn to roar. Its a place of watering your dreams to fruition.
I encourage you to engage in dialogue as we pursue the call and destiny of God upon our lives.
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